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Co-parenting course

As a parent navigating the separation or divorce journey, you may be feeling anxious or confused about how to co-parent effectively and support your children. If you’re committed to making positive changes for your children and yourself, the Co-Parenting Institute’s Turning Point online course could be the right choice for you.

What is Turning Point?

Turning Point is a 6-week online program designed to reduce conflict for co-parents. Led by award-winning mediator Lisanne Iriks and family expert Sharyn Green-Arndt, this course will help you develop an effective co-parenting roadmap through separation and provide access to a carefully compiled list of resources to support your children.

With their combined 45+ years of experience in the family conflict space, Lisanne and Sharyn will guide you through the education, well-being strategies and communication tools you need to become a better co-parent.

The program includes:

  • Access to weekly education modules on topics like navigating the legal system, better communication strategies and supporting your children through separation
  • Weekly live sessions with Lisanne and Sharyn to ask questions and connect with other co-parents
  • 6 months of free access to the CoOperate co-parenting app.

What are the benefits of joining Turning Point?

One of the key benefits is the opportunity to connect with other parents navigating separation and divorce in a safe and supportive environment. This program can help you break out of the cycle of never-ending emotions and uncertainty, while also giving you the confidence to create a unique path that’s unique to your situation.

Other benefits include:

  • Simple strategies to reduce conflict
  • Improved communication and setting boundaries to reduce misunderstanding
  • Emotion management to turn difficult days into powerful lessons
  • Improved well-being for both you and your children.

Meet the creators of the Turning Point Course, award-winning mediator Lisanne Iriks and family expert Sharyn Green-Arndt

Lisanne has over 15 years of experience in conflict resolution, coaching, and education. She is committed to empowering separated parents to live conflict-free lives and reach their full potential.

Sharyn is a Family Expert with over 30 years of experience working with families going through relationship breakdowns and separations. She has extensive experience in the Family Court as a Court-appointed therapist and is passionate about supporting families to come out of separation stronger and happier.

Lisanne and Sharyn have collectively worked for 45 years in the family conflict space. They have helped thousands of separated parents navigate complex issues and are driven by a desire to assist families with simple conflict resolution strategies.

Learn more about the Turning Point course and find out if it’s the right fit for you.

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What are people saying about Turning Point

“The skills and tools that I learned from participating in the workshop immediately impacted my personal life. Instead of avoiding conflict, I was able to turn around a very explosive situation and as a result, have a stronger relationship.” – D. Palmer

“It was unbelievable I was able to resolve the problem by applying every single thing you taught me on the same day. I used all that knowledge to drive the conversation and get the best possible outcome.” – M.de Leon

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Financial Advice and Coaching

When you’re separating, it’s natural to have concerns about your financial future, especially if you haven’t had much experience managing money. Speaking with a financial expert can be a good idea to give you peace of mind about your short and long-term financial security.

You don’t have to work towards your former partner’s budget and money goals any longer, but perhaps you need help figuring your new ones out. A financial advisor or coach can support you through the financial aspects of your separation, help you understand your needs, shape your vision of the future, and create the path to get there.

How can a financial expert help?

Financial wellbeing: Money can provoke many emotions – good and bad. We all have a relationship with money that can go right back to childhood. Your emotions around money can really be heightened when going through a separation and dealing with increased uncertainty. An empathetic financial expert can work with you to build a healthy relationship with your finances and improve your financial wellbeing by understanding how you can mindfully spend and save your money.

Clarity for decisions: A financial expert can provide support and clarity during this challenging time, talking out some of the emotions to help you make rational decisions about how you choose to structure your separation settlement and which assets you choose to hold on to.

Financial planning: They can help you create a clear and achievable financial plan for your future. They can consider your income, expenses, and goals and tailor a plan that suits your specific needs.

Understanding assets and debts: They can help you understand your current financial situation, including any assets and debts. This clarity is crucial during a separation.

Cash flow and budgeting: If you’re new to managing finances, a financial advisor can assist in creating a budget that ensures you can meet your financial obligations while also saving for the future.

Housing decisions: Whether you’re refinancing your home, searching for a new one, or exploring the rental market, an advisor can create custom options to boost your confidence in your choices.

Insurance review: An advisor can comprehensively review your insurance coverage and protect you against unforeseen events.

Investment guidance: If you have investments or want to invest funds from your settlement, a financial advisor can guide you on making the most of your money.

Retirement planning: Planning for your retirement is vital. A financial advisor can help you prepare for your post-work years.

Tax implications: Separation can have tax implications. A financial advisor can guide you on how to navigate these changes efficiently.

Meet the financial experts in our network

Ryan Watson, Tribeca Financial – Financial Advice

Ryan Watson founded Tribeca Financial with the goal of helping people live their best lives. He was frustrated with the financial planning industry’s focus on ‘keeping up with the Joneses’ and wanted to create a different kind of company, one that was focused on helping people achieve their own unique financial goals.

Ryan and his team of expert financial advisors work with clients from all walks of life to help them grow and preserve their wealth, have the capacity to absorb financial shocks and have the freedom to make choices in life. He wants his clients to be able to live life as they wish, on their own terms.

With a passion for working with people at a crossroads in their lives, such as separation, Ryan and the Tribeca team are there to advise, protect, and support their clients’ financial wellbeing through the process and beyond.

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Sarah O’Sullivan, Oakmont Financial – Financial Advice

With over 17 years of experience in financial services, Sarah is dedicated to helping clients achieve their financial and lifestyle goals. A member of the Financial Advice Association Australia (FAAA), she specialises in guiding individuals through the financial complexities of separation with empathy and expertise.

Sarah’s areas of focus include cash flow and debt management, superannuation, retirement planning, investments, direct equities and personal risk insurances. She is committed to promoting financial literacy and making financial planning accessible and transparent, ensuring clients feel confident and supported during life’s transitions.

Reach out today to discover how Sarah can help you take control of your financial future.

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Do you need advice about money in separation?

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Financial advice versus financial coaching

Financial advisors are registered to offer long-term financial planning, advice, and recommendations for managing your money. They may assist you with setting goals and the plan to reach them. They may also work with you on an ongoing basis managing your investments and financial wellbeing.

A financial coach offers more of a guiding hand to help you organise and facilitate the financial aspects of separation. A coach who specialises in supporting you through your financial separation can help you understand your financial position, your assets and liabilities, income and expenses, and guide you through financial documents that might be unfamiliar to you and the financial information required for a property and financial settlement. They can also collate the relevant financial information and all supporting documentation in a form that can be presented to your family lawyer or used in private negotiations.

A coach cannot offer financial advice – rather they provide financial education and support through your separation.

When should I speak to a financial advisor?

When facing a divorce or separation, Tribeca’s best advice is to give yourself time. Look after yourself and your family first. Don’t rush any decisions. When you’re ready, they are there to help you with your financial choices and plan for the future.

There’s no one right time to speak to an expert. There are benefits to seeking financial support at many stages of the separation journey, depending on your situation.

Before you separate
You may choose to engage a financial expert before you separate, particularly if you have a complex asset pool or are new to managing finances and need assistance with impending changes to cash flow and budgeting.

Before or during negotiations
A financial advisor can empower you by helping you know your short and long-term needs and goals before you enter your negotiations. This gives you clarity on what you need. It also lets you know what you can compromise on in your agreement.

A financial coach can guide you to locate all your assets and liabilities and prepare your documentation negotiate from a place of empowerment and clarity.

After you settle
Once your property is settled, you may wonder what’s next. A coach can support you with financial literacy and budgeting for your new life. A financial advisor can help you set goals for a secure financial future with the freedom to make financial choices, absorb shocks and enjoy your new life.

Can a financial advisor or coach tell me what I’m entitled to?

Financial advisors and coaches can’t answer questions relating to your legal rights and entitlements around your asset pool.

If your money questions are about your entitlements, the laws and regulations related to asset division, parenting matters, and child support, your next step is to educate yourself with The Separation Guide Legal Plan on the Support Hub and speak with a family lawyer.

If you have money questions about the best way to manage your money, set your financial goals and move from surviving to thriving financially, then it’s time to engage the help of a financial advisor.

 

The Separation Guide aims to make separation and divorce simpler, more manageable and less stressful. To learn more about how one of our Network Members could support your separation, take our free three-minute Q&A.

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The information in our resources is general only. Consider getting in touch with a professional adviser if you need legal, financial or well-being support.

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Home and property support during separation

Separation and divorce are big and stressful life events. If you have to sell a property as part of your separation journey, that stress can be amplified – but you don’t have to go through it alone.

Engaging the right real estate agent can make all the difference. They’re not only impartial, but you can use their property knowledge to streamline the home selling process to take some of the stress away.

When should I use a real estate agent?

Not every couple who separates sells their owned property right away. One partner may wish to ‘buy out’ the other to take on the mortgage and property as their own, or they may decide that one partner can stay in the home until a sale is finalised. However, what’s important is that you meet with a mediator and/or lawyer before you decide to sell to get the right advice for your circumstances.

How can a real estate agent help?

Experienced support Top real estate agents are empathetic and experienced in working with couples who are going through a separation. They can work with both parties equally and get a property sold quickly if that’s what’s needed.

Property appraisal Agent Select offers property estimates based on growth trends and local rental data. This service is free and is a valuable piece of information for your separation journey.

Streamlined process An experienced real estate agent can guide you through the process of selling your home, step-by-step. They can prepare you for what’s to come – both literally and emotionally – before, during and after the property is sold.

Type of sale A real estate agent can recommend the best type of sale depending on your circumstances. They can advise on whether an auction or private sale is the right option and what to expect in each instance.

Marketing Working with an agent who understands the local market  can give you insights into the best ways to market your property for sale.

Home upgrades Not only can a top agent tell you what upgrades to consider for adding value to your asking price, they can also organise the right tradespeople to get the job done for you.

Meet Agent Select – the real estate agent recommended platform

Agent Select connects you to top performing real estate agents in your local area to sell your property. It’s a 100% free, independent and unbiased searchable platform that gives you transparent insights into commissions and fees to expect when selling your home. You can compare three different agents to see the fees, commissions and the suggested sale price to determine which option may be best for you. Most importantly, Agent Select knows that a separation is a stressful time so they add that layer of empathy when selecting the best agents to compare.

Agent Select also offers a free property appraisal so you can see how much your home is worth and learn important information about the local market. Get access to their national database of 40,000+ licensed real estate agents to find the support you need to navigate your property sale with confidence and less stress.

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Legal fee review

At The Separation Guide, we pride ourselves on partnering with lawyers who uphold our Ethical Charter. They operate with transparency, ensuring you understand their fee structures and what to expect at each stage of your separation. Unfortunately, not all family law practitioners work this way.

Sometimes, clients come to The Separation Guide after they’ve already engaged a lawyer outside our Network, and they find themselves facing unexpectedly high legal bills. These clients often describe feeling ‘held captive’, with proceedings half finished and charges building up.

Separation and divorce are already challenging enough without the added stress of potential overcharging. There are steps people can take to address the issue. We recommend that they have their fees independently reviewed.

When should I dispute legal fees?

Legal advice and services come at a cost. Often when you go through separation, it might be the first time you’ve engaged with lawyers for more than a conveyancer or wills and estates lawyer, and the price for separation agreements and drafting might seem daunting or excessive.

It’s important to recognise that legal advice and services are tightly regulated and provided by people who are highly qualified and experienced. A lawyer’s hourly rate may sit between $300-$600 plus GST, depending on their location and speciality. Costs for drafting consent orders sit in the thousands.

An issue with fees only occurs if you have been charged excessive or unreasonable fees for the work a lawyer has carried out on your behalf. Identifying whether you’re being overcharged is the first step in addressing a potential dispute. Here are some common signs to watch out for.

Excessive billing hours A noticeable increase in billed hours without significant progress in your case.

Unreasonable charges Billing for tasks that seem trivial or unrelated to your legal matter, such as excessive administrative work.

Lack of transparency Receiving vague or unclear billing statements that make it difficult to understand the charges.

Unapproved change in the scope Billing for an increase in costs and/or scope of work that hasn’t been clearly outlined before the work was carried out.

What should I do if I think my lawyer has overcharged me? 

If you believe your lawyer has overcharged you, you need to be proactive.

Review your agreement Check the engagement agreement or contract you signed with your lawyer to ensure the fee structure aligns with what was initially agreed upon.

Request detailed billing statements Ask for itemised billing statements that clearly outline the services rendered and corresponding charges to identify any discrepancies.

Open communication Discuss your concerns directly with your lawyer to seek clarification on billing issues. Sometimes, open dialogue can resolve misunderstandings.

Who can help me dispute legal costs?

If direct communication fails, consider seeking help from legal fee dispute resolution specialists.

The Legal Services Commission in your state can help up to certain limits and on certain matters.

The other option is to speak with a cost lawyer who offers several services to help you challenge excessive legal fees.

What is a cost lawyer?

Cost lawyers specialise in dealing with the costs aspect of legal proceedings. They provide expert advice and services related to the assessment, negotiation, and management of legal costs. Here’s an overview of what cost lawyers do and when you might need their services.

Expert Analysis Conducting a thorough review of your case and billing statements to identify instances of overcharging or billing irregularities.

Negotiation Skills Experienced professionals can negotiate with your lawyer or law firm to reach fair and equitable fee resolutions.

Mediation Services Attending mediation on your behalf to facilitate constructive dialogue and find mutually acceptable solutions.

Legal Representation Providing competent legal representation if disputes escalate and legal action becomes necessary, advocating for a refund or reduction in fees.

Costs recovery Assisting in the recovery of legal costs from the opposing party, ensuring that you receive the appropriate amount owed to you.

Discovering that your lawyer has overcharged you can be unsettling, but it’s important to know that you have options to address the issue. By taking proactive steps—such as reviewing agreements, requesting detailed billing statements, and seeking external assistance—you can challenge excessive legal fees.

Meet the cost lawyers in our network

Law in Check is a law firm specialising in helping people who have been unfairly charged by their lawyers. They review invoices, cost agreements and trust account statements to determine any unfair bill charges and provide expert advice to help reduce legal fees and make sure that you are being charged a fair and reasonable amount for legal services.

Law in Check will only engage with you if they believe you have a case and you are likely to receive a reduction in your fees. The team works hard to make sure their own fees are fair and fit what their clients need. They keep everything transparent, so you know exactly what they’re being charged. Many times, Law in Check can get the previous lawyer to cover a big part of the assessment costs.

By engaging a cost lawyer from Law in Check, you can navigate the complexities of legal costs with confidence, knowing that you have a dedicated professional advocating for your best interests. fair and reasonable value for the legal services provided to you.

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What is the process of engaging Law in Check?

You first have a free chat with a member of the Law in Check team who can assess your matter. They can outline their costs, and let you know if it is in your best interests to proceed further.

Your next step is to provide documents for a paid review and meet with a cost lawyer in the practice, who can advise you on how to progress your matter.

What are the benefits of engaging Law in Check?

  • Transparency: They offer a free initial consultation so you can discuss your situation and their fees clearly before you decide to move forward.
  • Save money: Law in Check specialises in reviewing legal fees and potentially reducing them if they find they’re unfair or unreasonable. This could mean getting money back in your pocket.
  • Expert help: Their team has experience in legal costs, which can be a complex area. They can analyse your bill and identify areas where you might have been overcharged.
  • Peace of mind: Dealing with legal fees can be stressful. Law in Check can take the weight off your shoulders by handling the communication with your lawyer on your behalf.

At The Separation Guide, we are committed to making your separation process less stressful and more cost-effective.

Consider contacting Law in Check if you need peace of mind that the family lawyer you’ve engaged has priced their services fairly and appropriately.

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Psychology and therapy during separation

Separation is a rollercoaster. Grief, anger, confusion – it’s a whirlwind of emotions that can leave you feeling lost at sea. While this is a normal part of the process, there’s no shame in seeking help to navigate the choppy waters. This is where psychology and therapy can be your anchor.

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Do I need a therapist during separation?

Whether you’re contemplating separation or already dealing with the upheaval, therapy can be a powerful tool for both individuals and couples.

Here’s why:

Understanding your emotions A therapist provides a safe space to unpack the complex web of emotions that come with separation. They can help you identify the root of your feelings and develop healthy coping mechanisms to deal with them.

Prioritising self-care Separation can be all-consuming. Therapy can help you focus on your well-being, rebuild self-esteem, and prioritise activities that nourish you.

Making difficult decisions Facing the logistics and legalities of separation can be overwhelming. A therapist can offer guidance as you navigate these challenges and make informed decisions about your future.

Emotional support for children If you have kids, therapy for children can give them a safe space to process their emotions and develop healthy coping mechanisms.

What type of therapy is right for me?

There are two main types of therapists in Australia: psychologists and counsellors. Psychologists focus on more severe mental health issues, while counsellors generally deal with everyday problems.

Although both can support people going through separation, there are some key differences.

Psychologists

Under Australian law, psychologists require more education and training than counsellors. They can diagnose mental health conditions and use evidence-based treatments such as cognitive behavioural therapy. However, please note that if you are looking to be prescribed medication, you will need to receive a referral from a psychiatrist.

One of the main benefits of seeing a psychologist is that you can obtain a Medicare rebate. If you wish to claim the Medicare rebate, you will need a referral from your GP. This is called a Mental Health Treatment Plan. With the Medicare rebate, the cost of seeing a psychologist is reduced. You will be eligible for 10 rebated sessions per calendar year if you receive a Mental Health Treatment Plan.

Counsellors

Counsellors serve as supportive guides, offering a listening ear and collaborative approach for those facing difficulties in everyday life. They focus on understanding your unique experiences with issues like grief, anger, or relationship struggles. Counsellors can help you develop strategies and a plan to achieve your goals and navigate emotional challenges.

While counsellors are not covered by Medicare rebates, some offer private health rebates, so it is important to check whether you are covered. In some situations, counsellors may be more cost-effective than psychologists, even without a Medicare rebate.

Ultimately, the best choice depends on your needs.

Should I get therapy with my (ex) partner?

Couples therapy can still be beneficial even if you’re headed towards separation or divorce.

Here’s how:

Communication bridge Communication often breaks down during separation. A therapist can act as a neutral mediator, facilitating constructive communication and fostering understanding between partners.

Co-parenting strategies If children are involved, co-parenting is crucial. Therapy can help you develop healthy co-parenting strategies prioritising your children’s well-being.

Closure (even if not reconciliation) Therapy can help you gain closure on the relationship, even if reconciliation isn’t the goal. It can be a space to process the past, acknowledge each other’s feelings, and move forward respectfully.

Remember: Therapy isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a sign of strength. It shows a willingness to invest in yourself and your emotional well-being during a challenging time.

How do I find the therapist I need?

Finding a therapist can feel daunting, but there are resources available. You can speak to your doctor for recommendations or use Talked to find someone who suits your needs. Remember, finding a therapist you feel comfortable with is important, so don’t hesitate to interview a few before deciding.

If you are finding it difficult to make decisions about how to move forward with your mental health or are in danger of hurting yourself, it’s best to reach out to Lifeline or contact your GP.

Meet Talked – the psychology and counselling recommendation platform

Our Network Member, Talked, is Australia’s number one online therapy platform.

Talked takes the guesswork and difficulty out of finding the right mental health support. Talked has helped over 20,000 Australians find, book and connect with one of our 150 psychologists or counsellors in 12 hours. Whether it is speaking with a relationship counsellor for couples therapy through to accessing individual sessions with a Medicare-rebated psychologist, Talked is there to help you find the right therapist for your needs.

You can select the kind of therapy you need and the issues you need help with. Match to available therapists and book an unlimited number of free introductory sessions to find the person who best supports your needs.

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Separation may be inevitable, but navigating it doesn’t have to be a lonely journey. Therapy can be your guiding light, helping you navigate this difficult chapter and emerge stronger on the other side.

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Co-parenting Apps

A co-parenting app is designed to simplify life for separated or divorced parents by helping them manage the day-to-day shared responsibility of raising their children.

Many separated parents find that using a co-parenting app can empower them to create a smooth and organised co-parenting experience, giving their children a happier and more stable environment.

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When do I need a co-parenting app?

You might consider using a co-parenting app in several situations:

Busy or dynamic schedules Do you and your ex struggle to keep track of multiple child schedules, appointments, and birthdays? Perhaps you have a flexible approach to shared care that is not always regular week to week. A co-parenting app can streamline your calendars and avoid confusion.

Desire for improved communication Even if co-parenting is relatively amicable, a co-parenting app can still be beneficial. These apps offer features to streamline communication and keep everything organised and in one place.

Long-distance co-parenting Do you live far from your co-parent? A co-parenting app can help bridge the physical distance by providing a central location to share information and communicate.

Reducing co-parent conflict If you are looking to improve communication with your ex-partner for the benefit of your children, or if your relationship is strained or argumentative, a co-parenting app can provide a neutral platform. Some have tools designed to help you both communicate better. It can also benefit privacy if you want to remove or block your former partner from other contact methods.

Court-ordered agreements If you have a court-ordered custody agreement, some co-parenting apps can help you track and document adherence.

Ultimately, co-parenting apps are tools that help make co-parenting smoother and more efficient. If you would like to improve communication, organisation, or any other aspect of co-parenting, then a co-parenting app might be a good solution for you.

What are the benefits of using a co-parenting app?

Prioritise clear communication Ensure your children’s needs are always met by keeping communication open and transparent with your co-parent. Co-parenting apps provide a safe and documented platform for all discussions.

Simplify co-parenting challenges Juggling schedules, expenses, and information sharing can be overwhelming, even before separation. Using a custom app streamlines your calendars, keeps track of finances, and stores important documents in one place.

Reduce conflict and increase cooperation Co-parenting apps help avoid misunderstandings and disagreements by providing a clear and organised system for managing co-parenting responsibilities.

Provide stability in a time of upheaval Using all the features of a co-parenting app can create a consistent and organised routine for your children, even amidst a family transition and show your kids you’re committed to working together for their wellbeing.

Peace of mind for co-parents An app designed to take the guesswork out of co-parenting allows you to focus on what truly matters—spending quality time with your children. This reduces stress and creates a more positive co-parenting dynamic.

What kind of features can I expect in my co-parenting apps?

Shared calendar This allows parents to easily view and manage their custody schedule, including regular exchanges and appointments for the children.

Secure messaging Co-parents can communicate with each other through the app, ensuring all messages are documented and time-stamped. Some apps offer privacy features like video calling without revealing phone numbers.

Document storage Important documents related to custody agreements, medical records, and school information can be stored securely in one place accessible to both parents.

Expense tracking This helps parents track shared expenses related to the children, such as childcare, medical bills, and extracurricular activities. Some apps allow for secure payment requests and transfers within the app.

Meet the co-parenting app in our network

amicable co-parent organiser

amicable, the co-parenting app designed by co-parents, can help you organise daily life and navigate this new chapter while prioritising the well-being of your children.

The Separation Guide customers receive an exclusive free two-month trial subscription to experience the benefits of the amicable co-parent organiser. After the trial, the subscription is $99.00 for 12 months.

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Why use amicable to streamline your co-parenting

Built by and for separated parents, the amicable app offers features specifically designed to streamline communication, organisation, and collaboration, reducing conflict and confusion.

Crystal-clear communication amicable’s secure messaging keeps everything organised and documented, preventing misunderstandings.

No more scheduling headaches Manage all child and pet schedules, appointments, and birthdays in one convenient, central location.

Shared goals, achieved together Set shared or private goals to stay focused on what matters most – raising happy kids. Choose from pre-written suggestions or create your own unique goals.

Conflict resolution, not escalation Unlike other apps focused solely on enforcing court orders, amicable fosters cooperation, keeping your family out of court.

Everything in one place Securely store your child’s key information, messages, and calendar events, all easily accessible to both parents.

Expert support at your fingertips Access valuable resources and guides to help you navigate the co-parenting journey.

Frequently asked questions about the amicable co-parenting organiser app

“Is amicable secure?” Absolutely. amicable prioritises your child’s privacy. All data and conversations are stored securely, with pin-protected access limited to authorised parents.

“Can’t I just use a regular calendar?” amicable goes beyond basic calendars. Create individual profiles for each child and pet, manage all their schedules in one place, and store your ongoing shared care arrangements.

“What’s wrong with WhatsApp?” While convenient, WhatsApp and other messaging services lack features specifically designed for co-parenting. amicable keeps child-related communication secure, private, separate and organised. Messages are time-stamped and can’t be deleted, promoting clear and accountable communication.

“Is there a free option?” amicable offers a generous two-month free trial to The Separation Guide customers (normally one month). Experience the app’s benefits risk-free, and cancel anytime if you’re not satisfied.

“Why amicable over other co-parenting apps?” Unlike other apps focused solely on enforcing court orders, amicable fosters positive communication and collaboration. Reduce conflict, work together more effectively, and keep your family out of court.

“What if we share care for a pet and don’t have kids?” You don’t need to have children to benefit from the features. amicable is perfectly suited to managing the shared communication around scheduling, financial arrangements and documentation that comes with sharing a beloved pet after separation.

“Do we both have to buy the app?” One person purchases the amicable subscription and invites the other parent. You don’t need their buy-in to purchase something together; you can take control.

Invest in a smoother co-parenting experience. Download amicable today and start building a more positive, collaborative co-parenting experience for your family.

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What people are saying about amicable

“So relieved to have found this app, it’s exactly what we needed. It has already been a huge help for me and my ex.”

“This app has helped us see things from a different view, and hopefully our child is better off as a result”

 

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The Separation Guide Support Hub

So many things need your attention during separation – it all adds up. Many people tell us that they find it useful to have a systematic approach during this tough time.

What is The Separation Guide Support Hub?

We’ve created a Support Hub platform as a central location to step you through your separation. Your Support Hub is a comprehensive resource centre that provides step-by-step checklists, tools and information and connects you to ethical, trusted professionals. It’s all in one place so you have peace of mind that you know what to do and you can move at a pace that suits you.

We understand that separation touches many parts of your life. Finding a path through the maze and knowing what to do next isn’t easy. We’ve taken great care to streamline the tasks in separation, making it easy to access everything you need.

Key features of your Support Hub

Your personal pathway: We’ve tailored your plan to suit you based on the information you gave us in your Q&A.
Centralised information: The Support Hub is your one-stop platform, putting your resources and professional recommendations in one place.
Step-by-step guidance: Checklists let you move through as quickly or as slowly as you need and track your progress.
Timely professional advice: Meeting providers after you’ve had the time to prepare helps you save time and cost.

How do I use the Support Hub?

 

How do I access my Support Hub?

Complete the Q&A. Tell us about your situation with our three-minute questionnaire, and we can tailor the Support Hub to your needs.

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The Separation Guide aims to make separation and divorce simpler, more manageable and less stressful. To learn more about how one of our Network Members could support your separation, take our free three-minute Q&A.

Disclaimer
The information in our resources is general only. Consider getting in touch with a professional adviser if you need legal, financial or well-being support.

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Divorce Coaching

Separation and divorce can be extremely overwhelming, and you may be at your lowest emotional point. It’s also a time when you must make critical decisions about family, finances and property that affect your life now and into the future.

Many people going through separation and divorce choose to engage a divorce coach to help them through this challenging time.

What is a divorce coach?

A divorce coach is someone you engage for one-on-one support to help with aspects of your separation and your new life. They provide emotional and practical guidance and support. Depending on their background, they may offer support around the family law system, financial literacy and independence, positive parenting or mental health challenges.

Divorce coaches have expertise in separation and divorce and in-depth knowledge of what you’re going through. They can reassure you and answer questions about your situation. Your divorce coach is your ally and will have your back.

Meet the coaches in our Network

Naomi Cao
Separation and Divorce Coach 

Naomi is a compassionate and experienced Divorce Coach who offers personalised support to help her clients navigate divorce’s emotional and practical complexities. With a deep understanding of the challenges that come with this life transition, she provides emotional support and co-parenting guidance and assists with rebuilding life after separation. Naomi also helps clients gain clarity on the divorce process, identify key issues for negotiations, and prepare effectively for meetings with their lawyer, empowering them to move forward with confidence and a clear plan.

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Beverley Berelowitz
Mental Health Social Worker and Divorce Coach

Bev is an accredited Divorce Coach with over 30 years of experience in social work in both the public and private sectors. She specialises in helping men and women navigate the challenges that arise at any stage of separation. Her coaching offers clarity on clients’ desires and needs, equips them with practical tools and strategies to progress, and helps them build a joyful and fulfilling life after separation or divorce.

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Why should I hire a divorce coach?

Whether you’re married or de facto, considering separation or already separated, you can benefit from the services of a divorce coach if you:

  • are feeling stressed and overwhelmed – a divorce coach can give you the clarity you need to work through your problems
  • want to save money – a divorce coach’s hourly rate is lower than a lawyer or mediator, so address your practical and emotional issues with your coach and deal with the legal issues with your lawyer
  • need peace of mind – the expert guidance of a divorce coach can give you confidence that you’re making rational and empowered decisions
  • want someone to turn to for emotional support – if you’re doing it tough or trying to support children through a family break-up, a divorce coach can help by providing you with the support you need
  • want to save time – A divorce coach can streamline everything you need to achieve rather than you trying to piece together a separation plan
  • have decision fatigue – a divorce coach can keep you on track and focused on the right issues at the right time
  • need a sanity check – your divorce coach is there to answer your questions and let you know that what you’re going through is normal.

What does a divorce coach do?

A divorce coach could help you:

  • know what decisions you need to make and when you need to make them
  • understand your immediate and long-term needs
  • identify upcoming challenges and be prepared to face them
  • navigate the family law system
  • advocate for yourself in your settlement negotiations with confidence and conviction
  • respond to your spouse in a way that won’t escalate conflict
  • tell your children about your separation, recognise the impacts on them and prioritise what’s best for them
  • develop a parenting plan and arrange child support
  • navigate evolving co-parenting arrangements
  • cope with your emotions, manage your anger or deal with fear about your future
  • look after your physical and mental health and develop self-care strategies
  • communicate with your employer or assist you in re-entering the workforce
  • build self-confidence and envision your new life after separation and divorce.

Divorce coaches don’t provide legal or financial advice. You should always speak to a registered lawyer or financial advisor.

How is divorce coaching different to Separation Support?

Separation Support helps you navigate the immediate practical next steps of your separation. Our separation consultants can listen to your unique circumstances, outline your options and recommend the professional services you should speak to next.

You work with your divorce coach for a more extended period. They can personally guide you through your separation journey to the other side and help you reach your longer-term goals. They often provide an in-depth structured program you work through with them. Others take a more tailored approach to help you through.

How do I choose a divorce coach?

Most divorce coaches offer online consultations Australia-wide – you’re not restricted to a coach in your immediate area. The divorce coach you choose will depend on your needs and preferences and how you resonate with their program.

Coaches come from a variety of backgrounds and offer a variety of programs. You may prefer a coach with finance or family law expertise or someone with a counselling or psychology background.

List the aspects of divorce coaching mentioned in this article that are most important to you. Most divorce coaches offer a free initial consultation. Ask them about their service to ensure they will meet your needs and that you’re aligned with each other. It’s vital to feel a sense of trust.

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Services

Family Law Finance

Are you currently going through a separation and worried about how to pay for legal advice and other related expenses? A relationship breakdown can be more difficult if you feel you can’t access help. Family law finance exists to level the legal playing field and relieve some of your financial worries.

What is family law finance?

Family Law financing is a special type of credit designed to help you pay for expenses related to family law matters. It can provide you with the upfront funds you need to get the right advice to negotiate your settlement with confidence, and unlike a traditional loan, you only repay once it’s over.
It’s there to help you cover all of the costs associated with the legal process. That includes third-party costs, such as your barrister, expert and court fees, if required.

How is family law finance different from other borrowing?

Unlike a standard personal loan or a credit card, this type of finance is specifically designed to support you through a difficult stage in your life.

Some important differences are:

  • you have a line of credit rather than receiving a lump sum payment
  • your credit limit is based on your expected settlement rather than your current ability to pay
  • funds are paid directly to your service providers rather than to your account
  • there are no upfront or ongoing repayments or fees
  • you only pay interest on what you use
  • applying for approval won’t affect your credit score
  • you repay the entire balance only once you’ve received your property settlement.

Who is eligible for family law finance?

Family law finance is asset-based lending secured against your expected settlement amount. It’s available if your matter has a division of property. As long as you have a property split, you can also use it to pay for parenting matters.

Providers look at your asset pool a bit differently from the courts. Not all property is counted – for example, superannuation isn’t included because it’s unlikely that you can repay your line of credit from it. The main things a provider will look at are:

  • your home or any investment properties
  • funds held in trust.

Ultimately, family law finance can help you focus on what’s important – finding the right advice and achieving a fair outcome – without the added financial burden of paying for it upfront.

Meet the funders in our Network

JustFund is Australia’s only dedicated family law finance provider. What sets the JustFund team apart from other legal finance providers is their expertise in family law and the complexities of separation. They understand separation is stressful and financially challenging, and they take pride in providing quality service and treating clients with respect and support.

Some other JustFund differences:

  • check your eligibility with JustFund before you hire a lawyer
  • apply for funding for unpaid legal fees
  • primary caregiving or part-time employment doesn’t exclude borrowing
  • apply even if you’re not on the property title, or you have already sold a property, and your funds are held in trust
  • pay only from the proceeds you receive from your property settlement
  • apply for a minimum $5,000 and up to 25% of your expected settlement value
  • in-house family lawyers assess your eligibility based on their understanding of the law.

JustFund’s financing options exist so you can focus on achieving a better outcome with the financial resources you need. Get peace of mind to seek legal advice by checking your eligibility.

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Enquiring with JustFund won’t affect your credit score, and there’s never any obligation to apply if you receive a pre-approval. Read more in JustFund’s Borrower Guide.

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What people are saying about JustFund

“You have been such an amazingly supportive and understanding lender. Your helpful, friendly service was so appreciated.” Leah

“Connecting with you gave me the financial opportunity to continue down a path that I wasn’t able to quit… your service was a lifeline.” Jodi

“Simply put, JustFund was invaluable and I couldn’t have gotten there without your support. Thank you for everything!” Scott

Services

Mortgage Broking

Separating from your partner can be an emotionally challenging time, and it’s important to address the practical aspects of your financial obligations, especially when you have a mortgage. If you intend to keep your family home, understanding your options and seeking professional advice becomes crucial. That’s where a mortgage broker can assist you in navigating the complexities of your mortgage situation during this transition.

What do I need to consider about my mortgage when separating?

When you co-own property and share a mortgage with your partner, both parties are jointly and severally responsible for meeting the mortgage payments in their entirety. Even if you have moved out, you still need to ensure your part of the mortgage is covered. Failure to meet mortgage payments could have negative consequences on your ability to borrow in the future.

Considerations when keeping your home

If you decide to keep your family home, there are several considerations to keep in mind regarding your existing home loan:

  • Establishing a new loan: Taking over the mortgage by yourself requires the establishment of a new loan. The lender will assess your individual borrowing capacity, allowing you to settle your old mortgage and buy out your ex-partner.
  • Property valuation: Your home will need to be revalued to determine its current market value. This valuation helps determine the buyout amount for your ex-partner’s equity share.
  • Additional costs: Keep in mind that legal fees for settlement agreements, property valuation and conveyancing, transfer fees, lender’s mortgage insurance, and potential taxes need to be factored into the financial arrangement.

The role of a mortgage broker in your separation journey

To gain a clear understanding of your borrowing options, it is advisable to engage the help of a mortgage broker. A broker who understands the challenges of separation can assess your unique situation, explore various lenders, and determine the feasibility of your plans. They will help you comprehend the income criteria for your loan application, assist in obtaining pre-approvals, and guide you through the loan application process when the time comes.

When should I speak to a mortgage broker?

Many people going through a separation choose to speak with a broker early. It is a good idea to get a picture of your borrowing power and financing options before you start negotiating your settlement with your former partner. This will help you know whether buying out your partner is an option for you or if selling your property is the right choice.

By obtaining a comprehensive understanding of your financial standing early on, you can reduce stress and expedite the process of moving forward. A mortgage broker’s expertise and industry knowledge can be invaluable in securing a stable financial future post-separation.

Meet the mortgage broker in our network

Angelo Nervosa, Superior Mortgage Solutions

With a 25-year tenure as principal of his own mortgage broking business, Angelo’s specialty is supporting individuals navigating their complex property situations during separation. He offers empathetic, confidential, and tailored mortgage advice to those undergoing this transition, understanding that each situation is unique.

Angelo works with you to untangle the financial threads of separation and find the best options. This allows you to move forward with clarity and confidence and reach a successful settlement. Whether you’re refinancing a joint mortgage into a single name or seeking to purchase a new home after a separation, Angelo’s assistance can pave the way for a smoother transition.

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