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What happens to my superannuation when I separate?

It’s common for separating couples to have different levels of superannuation. How you split your super in your separation sometimes comes as a surprise.

It’s important to understand that superannuation is considered property in a separation, and you both must include your super in your pool of assets. You should also understand your rights to your portion of the split.

We asked family lawyer Samantha Miller some common questions we get from separating couples about how family law legislation views superannuation in separation.

What happens if I’ve been a primary caregiver and missed out on years of earnings and super contributions?

In a property settlement, the law looks at the contributions you’ve both made to all of your assets, including your superannuation, property, other investments, and belongings. The law thinks about the direct financial contributions and indirect contributions to those assets.

For example, one person stayed home to look after children so their spouse could go out and make money and contribute towards superannuation. These contributions are considered equal, so the superannuation entitlements are considered equal.

What happens to my super if my ex is caring for our children more after we separate?

The law looks firstly at contributions during the relationship and then at each person’s future needs and earning potential. This includes the impact on someone’s future career if they need to care for their children.

It’s common for the person who has taken a greater share of the care of children during the relationship to have a lower income and to have contributed less to their own superannuation. Post-separation, caring for the children is more costly, and it also impacts the ability to earn and reestablish superannuation and financial position.

So, the law will often award a greater share of the asset pool to the parent with a lower income and a greater share of the children. Remember, the asset pool includes both of your super balances.

What happens if my partner received employer contributions while I was a sole trader or business owner and I didn’t make contributions to my super?

Just because one person didn’t contribute to their superannuation doesn’t mean they’re not equally entitled to the pool of assets.

If the money existed and was used within the marriage for the couple or family’s benefit, it would be counted just like any other asset. Each person would have the same entitlement to the asset as if they’ve contributed to it throughout their relationship.

What happens if I’ve contributed ten or twenty years of superannuation to my fund before entering the relationship?

The initial contribution, or what each party brought into the relationship, is considered in a split. That may give one person a greater pull on the assets.

If the relationship is around five years or shorter, initial contributions are given more weight. If a relationship breaks down very early on, then a settlement will often try to put the people back into the same position that they came into the relationship.

However, if a marriage is 20 or 30 years long, the initial contributions are generally not given much consideration.

What happens to any super built after the official date of my separation but before my settlement is finalised?

The couple’s entire pool of assets is included in the split when legally binding documents are lodged with the court to finalise your financial and property matters. Legally, people must disclose their current position on that day.

Someone can make arguments about why the Court shouldn’t include it. For example, it arose post-separation. But if one party has less superannuation, it’s probably because they had a greater share of childcare, and there was a disparity in their income.

If my super was released early when we were together, how are my entitlements affected after we split?

If a couple released superannuation during the relationship, it will be assumed that it was used for the good of the family unit, and it just disappeared. The couple may have used it to pay off the mortgage or just spent it, and it’s no longer in the asset pool. If it was spent post-separation for entirely personal needs, it might be notionally added back into the asset pool and notionally divided.

The legislation is designed to provide an equitable split of assets based on your contributions to the relationship. Our expert Network Members are qualified to help you get to a fair outcome so you can get on with life with a fresh start and hopefully some financial security around your retirement.

If you want to know more about splitting assets in separation and get some advice about your circumstances, complete our 3-minute Q&A. The Q&A asks you questions to help us find out about your situation. We can send you resources to read and listen to relevant to your needs. And when you’re ready, we can put you in touch with the right professionals.

To hear the full discussion with Samantha, listen to our podcast Separating with super.

 

The Separation Guide aims to make separation and divorce simpler, more manageable and less stressful. To find out more about how one of our Network Members could support your separation, take our free 3-minute Q&A.

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The information in our resources is general only. Consider getting in touch with a professional adviser if you need support with your legal, financial or wellbeing needs.

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5 tips for financial empowerment during separation

Deciding to separate from your partner is an incredibly difficult decision. If you are facing separation and you’re not across your financial situation, it can be even more overwhelming and scary. It doesn’t have to be.

In many relationships, one person takes a more active role in managing household finances. If this isn’t you, getting informed about your position, your entitlements and your responsibilities can take away a lot of the anxieties you might have.

This blog explores some of the ways you can empower yourself financially before you speak with a professional to take some of the guesswork and stress out of your decision making.

Tip 1 Keep emotions out of your financial decisions

Ending a marriage is an intensely emotional time. You may be feeling many things, from grief and loss to guilt, anger or jealousy, to relief, hope or even excitement. It is possible to swing from one emotion to another.

Our Network Member Kylie Harding from Morgans Financial says ‘it’s really, really important to try and separate the financial from the emotional’. Kylie recommends that you give yourself a little bit of time to pause and stop before jumping in and making emotion-based decisions.

One common emotion-based decision that separating couples often face is who will live in the family home. Network Member, Selena James from Future Family Law says “It’s really common to hear, “I’ve just got to keep the house. I don’t want the superannuation.”

Sometimes keeping that family home is not going to be the best financial decision for a couple’s future. Selena says it’s important to make sure that couples aren’t caught up in the emotional side of things and that they get the right advice.

If you can keep emotions out of dealing with your finances, you have the opportunity to set up your post-separation finances in a way that’s going to work best for you.

Tip 2 Do a financial stocktake so you know where you stand

Kylie says it is really important that you have a clear view of your financial position. ‘Pay attention. Try to get 100% across what is happening.’

Make a list of all your assets, including

  • your home and any investment properties
  • furniture and belongings
  • cars and other vehicles
  • money in bank accounts
  • shares and other investments
  • cryptocurrencies
  • superannuation
  • inheritances.

Make a list of all joint debt, including

  • mortgages
  • personal loans
  • business loans
  • car loans
  • credit card debt.

List any family or business trusts in one or both of your names.

You can also use our pool of assets calculator.

Compile this information in a central point and, if you can, have your partner agree to the information.

Having a clear idea of where you stand will help when you engage mediators and/or lawyers in the future, and will help to make any advice a financial advisor gives you targeted to your situation.

Tip 3 Write all your questions about your financial future

Don’t leave important details to chance. Write down everything you need to know so you address your questions with your partner and have clarity about your situation.

You may need answers to some of the following questions.

  • Who will cover the household payments, such as the mortgage or rent, and utility payments?
  • How will you pay for a second dwelling?
  • How will your joint savings be divided?
  • How will you deal with tax?
  • What changes will you make to your insurance?
  • If you have children, how will the financial cost of their upkeep be split?
  • Will child support be necessary? Which person will be obliged to pay the other?

If communication around the separation has broken down with your partner, make sure you still write down all your questions so you can raise them through your Mediator or Family Lawyer.

Tip 4 Educate yourself to get the most out of professional advice

Jack Whelan, Mediator and co-founder of The Separation Guide says ‘the more educated and more informed people are, the less vulnerable they are.’

Before you get professional advice, arm yourself with as much information about your situation as possible. Educate yourself about financial responsibilities and entitlements. This will help empower you to make the best decisions for your future. Try to get across the rules so you have expectations in line with the law. Be careful that you don’t make assumptions about what you may be entitled to.

You will get the most value from a Mediator, Family Lawyer or financial advisor if you’ve done the work before you speak. Then they can spend the time giving you advice specific to your situation.

Tip 5 Try to put tasks into smaller, bitesize chunks

All of these tips may seem overwhelming, but not everything needs to be dealt with immediately. Prioritise the important tasks and just focus on the next step.

“It’s all about compartmentalising and putting things into bite-size pieces,” says Selena.

When you have a clearer picture of where you stand and know the questions you need to get answered, get professional advice by engaging a financial advisor. They can help guide you on the big financial decisions.

If you haven’t done so already, complete The Separation Guide Q&A to help guide you through the maze of information. The Q&A asks you questions to help us find out about your situation. We can send you resources to read and listen to that are relevant to your needs and broken down into digestible chunks. And when you’re ready, we can put you in touch with the right professionals.

To find out more about financial empowerment, listen to our podcast episode, Financial Empowerment, before, during and after separation.

Note that Kylie Harding was known by her married name Kylie Macdonald when our podcast was recorded.

The Separation Guide aims to make separation and divorce simpler, more manageable and less stressful. To find out more about how one of our Network Members could support your separation, take our free 3-minute Q&A.

Disclaimer
The information in our resources is general only. Consider getting in touch with a professional adviser if you need support with your legal, financial or wellbeing needs.

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How do I get a divorce in Australia?

While ‘separation’ and ‘divorce’ are often used interchangeably, they mean different things. Divorce means ending a marriage legally. Granting a divorce does not determine the other issues of separation, such as financial support, property distribution or arrangements for children. It simply recognises that the marriage has ended.

You don’t have to get a divorce if you and your spouse separate unless you want to marry someone else. But staying married might affect your rights and responsibilities. You should talk to a lawyer if you are unsure what to do.

Am I eligible for divorce?

To get a divorce, you need to show that you and your spouse have been separated for at least 12 months and there’s no reasonable chance that you’ll get back together. The legal term for this is that your marriage has ‘irretrievably broken down’.

It’s possible to separate and still live together in the same home and this time can count to your 12 months. It’s important that you establish your date of separation.

You can apply for a divorce in Australia if either you or your spouse:

  • regard Australia as your home and intend to live in Australia indefinitely, or
  • are an Australian citizen by birth, descent or by grant of Australian citizenship, or
  • ordinarily live in Australia and have done so for 12 months immediately before filing for divorce.

If you got married in another country, you can still get a divorce in Australia if you meet the above conditions.

If you’ve been married for less than two years, you need to go to counselling with your spouse and get a certificate from the counsellor. Or you need to get permission from the court to apply for a divorce without the certificate.

What is the Court process for divorcing?

You can apply for a divorce by yourself or together with your spouse. You need to apply to the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia. Many file divorce applications online using the Commonwealth Courts Portal online form.

If you live in Western Australia, you’ll need apply to the Family Court of Western Australia.

Most people don’t need to attend a court hearing, but you might need to in some circumstances, such as whether your application is joint or sole and whether you have children under 18.

There are fees for applying for a divorce, but you might be able to pay less or nothing if you have financial difficulties.

Need support on property and parenting matters?

Take our Q&A to be put in touch with professionals that will suit your separation and your situation.

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What about parenting and property?

Applying for a divorce won’t cover the other legal considerations of separation. You need to agree with your spouse on these matters separately, and most people seek professional advice and support to do this. You don’t need to wait for 12 months to agree and settle your parenting and property matters.

If you have children under 18, a court can only grant a divorce if it is satisfied that you’ve made proper arrangements for their care.

If you finalise your divorce before you settle financial or property matters, you’ll have 12 months after your divorce to do so.

Who can help me with my divorce?

If you’d like advice about parenting and property or support with your divorce application, the legally qualified mediators and family lawyers in our network can talk you through your next steps.

The professionals in our network have signed our Ethical Charter and believe in de-escalation and court as a last resort.

The Separation Guide aims to make separation and divorce simpler, more manageable and less stressful. To find out more about how one of our Network Members could support your separation, take our free 3-minute Q&A.

Disclaimer
The information in our resources is general only. Consider getting in touch with a professional adviser if you need support with your legal, financial or wellbeing needs.